Thank God for Valy, Anna and their family who are are doing a sterling job of disseminating the TOB.
Gerard
2001: With permission from CCL International, produced and distributed 500 audio-tapes on Christopher West's Introduction to TOB.
Gave short talks based on the TOB to youth groups, parish council members, diocesan priests, St. Luke's Medical Guild, Goa.
Wrote articles based on TOB for Marriage Encounter, Engaged Encounter and Diocesan magazines
2002 - 03: Presented the vision of the TOB to the Trainees of the Parish Family Cells at the invitation of the Diocesan Family Service Centre, Goa.
2004: Talk on TOB givent to the 3rd and 4th year seminarians of Rachol Seminary Goa. Used audio tapes Naked without Shame for Pre-baptismal team couples of Archdiocese of Bombay.
2005: Starting in 2005 till this year, gave four-day seminars on the TOB to the newly ordained priests in Goa Archdiocese. Organised three-day Seminar on TOB at Goa in August in collaboration with CCBI Family Commission.
2006: Presented short talks on the TOB to youth groups in Goa on three occasions.
In July, (Vally & Anna) attended a Certification Course: Head & Heart Immersion I, given by Christopher West, at the Theology of the Body Institute, Pennsylvania, USA in June 2007.
2007 : Presented Christopher West's “Created and Redeemed” to team couples of Marriage Encounter Goa, member of Jesus Youth in Bangalore and Chennai and to members of the Pro-Life Group in Goa.
In August 2008, (Vally & Anna) attended a Certification Course on Catholic Sexual Ethics, given by Dr. Janet Smith at Pennsylvania, USA and in September 2008 (Vally) attended a Certification Course: Head & Heart Immersion II given by Christopher West.
2008: Presented talks to a secular audience bas aed on the TOB to all students of Nirmala Niketan College of Home Science, Mumbai over three days and to the students of Goa College of Home Science -one day.
Gave Motivation Talks based on the TOB at the Engaged Encounter Weekends in Mumbai.
As Team couples for Marriage Encounter and Engaged Encounter and Team Trainers for the Marriage Encounter, we have also incorporated the TOB into most of our talks.
Gave Pre-conference training on TOB to 200 delegates for Asia Pacific Conference of HLI in Goa.
2009-10: Gave a talk on the TOB to experienced Marriage Encounter team couples in Kochi.
Conducted six weekend residential Workshops on Christopher West's Introduction to the Theology of the Body, with a faculty of five (Valentine & Anna Coelho, James Kurian, Nadisha Coelho & Nimish Coelho) to over 125 participants including about 17 priests, 23 doctors, seven nuns. The feedback has been very encouraging.
TOB Seminar presented by the Couple to Couple League of India and organised in Mumbai by the Bio-Medical Ethics Center, headed by Fr. Stephen Fernandes, Director, in collaboration with the Catholic Medical Guild of St. Lukes, Mumbai from 20-21 March 2010.
The latest TOB Seminar in Mumbai touched the lives of most of the participants. Twenty-three people attended the whole seminar (20th and 21st March), while twenty-two others attended came on the second day of the seminar; a majority of the participants (23) were doctors.
Some of the comments of the participants:
The course consists of very good and informative notes for study.
- A youth
The TOB seminar was an eye opener in many ways. The teachings of Pope John Paul, especially about the act of sexual intercourse being so sacred, so beautiful, among many other teachings.
- A doctor
It increased my knowledge about my body, sexual morality, relationship between man and woman in marriage...
- A doctor
The speaker is so passionate and emotional. To see his passion and the use of his personal (very personal) testimonies, touched me immensely.
- A doctor
It has helped me respect myself and others and understand deeply the meaning of sex in my life.
- A youth
The aspect I liked the most was that sexual intercourse is 'DIVINE', and a peep into the Beatific Vision, as I was illiterate about it.
- A doctor
I liked the personal sharing by Vally as this really opened peoples' hearts, because in order to accept the teachings, we need to feel human experiences to understand better.
- A youth
Enjoyed the session on marriage as a sacrament, the act of sexual intercourse being holy and not just an act of Recreation and Procreation. It will help me in my marriage, to understand my husband better.
- A married person
The TOB should be for a longer duration.
- A married person
Overheard at the Seminar:
"Getting this information now is like getting a comb when you're bald"
- A doctor, married 25 years
"Now I am convinced that Natural Family Planning really is the gift of the Catholic Church to the world."
- A doctor
"I am ready to give up my profession to propagate this message full-time."
- A doctor
The TOB seminar in Old Goa was very enriching both for the participants as well as the organisers. It was attended by 16 participants, 14 being newly ordained priests of the last two years and 2 youth - one male and one female.
Some of the comments made by the participants:
I liked the different analogies used to explain concepts.
- A priest
As a man it has deepened my understanding of the meaning of my body. The different views in the group discussion was enriching. I would like to bring some aspect of this in marriage preparation courses.
- A priest
I liked the talk on Celibacy for the Kingdom and the understanding that even married people are called to chaste life in their vocation.
- A priest
I recommend this seminar for counsellors, college students and post-confirmation children.
- A priest
I liked the aspect that the body is 'prophetic' because spouses proclaim the language of the body truthfully. Also the point that celibacy has a redeeming effect.
- A priest
It has deepened my insights on Natural Family Planning and TOB.
- A priest
Very methodical, interactive and well coordinated.
- A priest
I will spread this good news wherever I go.
- A priest
It is a rare topic which is not discussed openly. It was practical and will help me in my daily life. We must create awareness among the masses as many people who want to know these values are forced to use wrong means.
- A young person
Which aspect of the TOB seminar did you like the most? Why?
1. Marriage as a Sacrament, Celibacy for the Kingdom – helped me change my point of view that they are not missing out on something important. Even the session on language of sexual love was good. - A youth
2. Celibacy for the Kingdom. Because it has helped me as a priest to accept my celibacy more. - A priest
3. All sessions were good. Aspect of marriage, husband and wife related to God, Christ and Church. -A married person
4. Great Analogy of Spousal Love – understood the details of our origin, our history and our destiny. -A youth
5. Almost all! Through it I came to know how much God loves me, and the true meaning of my life, body. There was also a negative thought of sexuality so all the questions have been solved. - A youth
6. I liked the things about celibacy, marriage as a sacrament and language of sexual love. As one need to know all three in relation to each other to understand truly the plan of God. - A youth
7. Marriage as a Sacrament. Liked the analogy between Marriage and the Church rituals. (Also the comparisons between Marriage and the various Sacraments.) - A single adult
In what way has participating in this seminar affected you?
1. Earlier I had a different way of looking at sexual intercourse. I always thought sex was the sin that Adam and Eve committed. But now I know what it is. And understood the important value of it. - A youth
2. My view on the body of myself has changed – become more meaningful - A priest
3. It has opened my eyes to what God has originally planned. This has given me a new set of lenses to see the world through.- A youth
4. Learnt that this was a topic after the late Pope John Paul II's heart. Saw the beauty of the relationship between husband and wife which is a foretaste of the relationship between God and us in eternity. - A single adult
How will this information help you?
1. Help me make my future relationship better. And to understand and accept my spouse better. - A Youth
2. In my ministry of the priesthood. Helping couples even in the confessional. - A priest
3. To participate more meaningfully in the Church's celebrations (Eucharist, Sacraments). To see the role of the priest and nun through the eyes of Marriage. (Eg. Priest – Husband/Father, Nun – wife/mother) - A single adult